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LA's Matriarch Of Día De Los Muertos Talks To Us About Death, Making Altars And The Significance Of The Day

A beautifully constructed altar includes photos, marigolds and other offerings
Ofelia Esparza and her daughter Rossana's altar at Self Help Graphics and Art is a tribute to their family and loved ones named Amor Eterno. In the middle, there's a watercolor painting of Mama Lupe — Ofelia Esparza's mother.
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One of the first things to know about Día de los Muertos is that it is not the Mexican Halloween. The How To LA podcast team sat down with Ofelia Esparza to talk about the true significance of the tradition for some Angelenos.

About Esparza

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Esparza is kind of like L.A.'s matriarch for Day of the Dead and is the go-to artist to build an ofrenda in this town — the altar built to remember loved ones who had died.

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She was born in East L.A. in 1930 and still lives about four blocks from where she was born, really close to Calvary Cemetery. She has nine children, 16 grandchildren and 13 great grandchildren.

Two women with gray wavy hair stand with a dog in front of an ofrenda, or altar, covered in flowers, paintings and photos to remember loved one who died.
Ofelia Esparza and her daughter Rosanna Esparza Ahrens (and dog Maxie) pose in front of the ofrenda they built for Día De Los Muertos
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Olive Bieni
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Her views on death

Esparza says she learned the importance of remembering the dead from her mother, who taught her about family members she'd never met.

"I came to realize the importance of that aspect, but it also carries our identity as a culture," Esparza said. "I want to honor these people, not how they died, but how they were loved, how their parents, their family loved them."

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"My mother, she would say that we all suffer three deaths. And the first death is the day that we give our last breath. The day that we die."

"Our second death is the day we're buried. And she would say 'never to be seen on the face of the earth again'. And that seems so final. She says 'no. the most final and most dreaded death of all is to be forgotten'."

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