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Living in Sin: Spinsterus Interruptus

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Sex is something that drives us, empowers us and gets us into really stupid situations with people we have no business seeing naked. Jen Sincero is the bestselling author and sexpert with the carnal knowledge you need. Ask her your questions (all are posted anonymously). Cuz there's no such thing as being too good in bed.

Dear Jen,

I’m one of those women who never has a boyfriend. I’m 35 and have had several relationships, but none of them ever rang true to me or lasted very long. Usually we were pretty poorly matched or one of us was much more into it than the other or some other lame, non-workable situation.

I’ve felt ready to find someone for a few years now but just keep falling into the same old bad situations with the wrong guys. I’ve been dating online, getting set-up, looking good, putting myself out there, etc. but it’s been a couple of years now and I’m starting to wonder what’s wrong with me. Am I doomed for a life of spinsterdom?
- Where is he Already?