Living in Sin: My Butt, the Glutton
Every week in Living in Sin, Jen Sincero provides advice to LA's sexually curious. You can see her column in print, too, in the LA Alternative Press. Ask Jen your questions: all are posted anonymously.
I am a happily married male who's been with my wife for over 15 years. We have a wonderful relationship and sex life. Here's my dilemma - I love anal play. Can't get enough of it. My wife has a strap-on that we use, but I am looking for something a little better. I am not bi-curious at all. Any suggestions?
I'm not exactly sure what you mean by better......bigger? Rougher? One with built in speakers?
As luck would have it, just yesterday I was invited to hang out on the set of a porn movie, one that was all about anal, so my butt know how is in tip top shape. I learned many, many, many, many things, including that the people who make pornography, or at least the people who were making this movie, are the kind of people I'd like my grandma to meet. I felt like I was at a family BBQ - there was food, beer, much laughter, hugs, good times. The only difference was that it all happened within five feet of some girl moaning at the top of her lungs while she got the holy frijoles banged out of her (but even she, between takes, mentioned she'd like a turkey sandwich please, no mayo, put aside for her she was done).