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Living in Sin: committed but bicurious

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Jen Sincero is a sexpert, musician, and the author of the bestselling book, The Straight Girl’s Guide To Sleeping With Chicks and the semi-autobiographical novel, Don’t Sleep With Your Drummer. She currently hosts the weekly sex talk radio show Dr. Happypants on Every week in Living in Sin, Jen provides advice for LA's sexually curious.

Got a question for Jen? Ask her. We promise to be discreet — all questions will be posted anonymously.

Dear Jen, I've always been bicurious, but have never acted on it. For the last five years, I've been in a relationship with a wonderfully open-minded guy who, outwardly, doesn't seem to have a problem at all with the idea of me being with another woman (hell, what guy would?), but I feel that if I act on it, I'll be cheating on him. I've thought about a threesome, but I want to experience this alone first. I really don't want to hurt my boyfriend — what should I do?

Jen's answer after the jump.