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Gift Guide: Be a gracious guest. Give a great gift to your host

You're sure to attend a holiday party or twelve this season. Bringing a thoughtful gift for your hosts acknowledges their hard work — and ensures you get an invite next year too.
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The best hosts make entertaining look easy — but we know the truth: Hosting an enjoyable gathering takes serious work.

So say thank you to the party planners in your life by arriving at the soiree, ugly sweater party, tree decorating, gift swap or gala with something special just for the host. We’ve rounded up a short list of gifts that prioritize personality and thoughtfulness over jingle — and are sure to get you invited back.

The LAist holiday gift guide for 2025

Write on! Fun and fabulous fountain pen ($38)

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This pen was developed in 1935 and remains a classic.
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Style meets substance with the Kaweco Sport Fountain Pen in orange at The Good Liver in downtown Los Angeles’ Arts District. The compact classic with a lightweight plastic body and gold-plated cap was developed in 1935 and remains just as distinctive today. Each pen is equipped with a medium nib and one blue ink cartridge.


Rock ‘n’ Roll bottle stopper ($20)

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Nothing is more rock 'n' roll than not wasting wine.
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A bottle of wine or spirits is a welcome gift for most holiday gatherings. Kick it up a notch with an unexpected punch of personal style. Rock On Bottle Topper from the GRAMMY Museum Store.


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Flowery finishing salt  ($21)

A hand holds a glass jar labeled "Flowersalt."
Your host might decide to use this gift right away.
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Pretty and practical, Flowersalt by botanical baker, Loria Stern of Eat Your Flowers offers an extra special combination of flaky finishing salt and edible flower petals. Sprinkle it atop cheese boards, dips, salads, soups and even dark chocolate desserts to elevate both taste and style.


Classic California vase ($55)

A teal vase with ribs.
Yes, flowers make a great host gift. But flowers in a thoughtful vase are even better.
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Flowers are always a thoughtful gesture — especially when presented in a giftable container. The Bauer 9-inch Ringware Vase in turquoise by Bauer Pottery Company of Los Angeles at the LACMA Store allows the party to get started without a mad dash to put the bouquet into water. The vase will serve as a wonderful reminder of your kindness long after the party is over.

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Pro tip: A floral foray into a Trader Joe’s is a wallet-friendly way to fill a vase. Cut the bottoms of the stems (for the best length and freshness) before arranging.


Tarot cards with hip-hop attitude ($17.85)

Various tarot cards.
For the mystical hip-hop head who's hosting.
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What’s in the cards for 2026? The Hip Hop Tarot deck at the GRAMMY Museum Store features all 22 Major Arcana cards reimagined rapper-style to predict the future in the mystical, musical year ahead. MF Doom graces the Hermit card, RZA is crowned as the Hierophant and Tupac Shakur is cast as the grim reaper.


Flower bowl ($65)

Sakura-flower-shaped bowls.
These bowls are designed and made by OWIU Goods in L.A.'s arts district.
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Bowl them over. Designed and hand made by a member of the Only Way is Up (OWIU Goods) team in their arts district studio, no two Sakura Flower Bowls are exactly alike. With petal-like curves and a dreamy, ephemeral glaze, the bowl was inspired by travels to Japan and intended for use at the table, in ceremony or as a daily part of a mindful matcha ritual.


Candle with a wink ($148) 

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We can't lie. We like this candle.
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Here’s a cheeky gift for the right person: the Negroni Nights Booty Candle at Los Angeles-based online retailer Here & Always. It features a fresh citrus, botanical and herb scent and is captured in a sexy, sculptural brass form.


Journal as art object  ($19.99)

A book open to a page that reads "On journaling as alchemy."
A perfect companion for someone who loved "The Book of Alchemy."
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Wish them the best in the new year. The Alchemy Journal: Part Diary, Part Sketchbook, Part Laboratory for Your Mind at Los Angeles-based Skylight LA is New York Times best selling author Suleika Jaouad’s answer to the perfect journal. Designed with a tactile leather cover to serve as a creative companion to her bestseller, The Book of Alchemy, Jaouad hopes others will find the same joy, clarity, refuge and sense of self in journaling that she does: “I reach for the page like I reach for prayer: to plead, to confess, to commune, to remember that all is not chaos, all is not lost.”


Get some Goodies (nothing over $25)

A burlap bag reads "goodies."
Goodies stocks thoughtfully sourced home goods, and nothing is more than $25.
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With four stores in Southern California, Los Angeles-based retailer Goodies is on a mission to level the playing field when it comes to contemporary style. The egalitarian stockist offers thoughtfully sourced ceramics, marble, wood, and woven home goods and accessories such as decorative catchalls, vases, candles, baskets and more — with nothing priced over $25. Chic, modern style, with minimalist price tags, like the Goodies Mini Market Tote, $5.


A reference for the next gathering ($30)

Book cover has a red envelope with an invitation. Title: Having People Over, by Chelsea Fagan.
"Having People Over" is a celebration of hospitality.
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Having People Over: A Modern Guide to Planning, Throwing and Attending Every Type of Party by best selling author Chelsea Fagan at Pasadena-based Vroman’s Bookstore is a celebration of radical hospitality. Fagan’s new release offers tips for optimizing party space, planning an unforgettable dinner (from mood board to menu!) and mixing up cocktails and mocktails. It also offers pointers for being a good guest when the party shoe is on the other foot. From inspiring tablescapes to charcuterie board maps, Having People Over is the perfect read for the most entertaining of friends.


Hand-printed and dyed bandana ($40)

An orange bandana with blue, red and yellow shapes.
A print inspired by sunny Southern California gardens on a bandana is a perfect addition to a Southern California host gift.
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This piece is inspired by LACMA’s Deep Cuts: Block Printing Across Cultures exhibit featuring William Morris’ classic Textile Rose pattern. The Los Angeles-based sisters at Block Shop drew from the poppies in their own sunny SoCal gardens to create a collection exclusively for the LACMA Store. Wrap the Block Shop x LACMA Bandana around a freshly baked (and packaged!) loaf of bread or on the handle of a gift bag of your best homemade cookies.

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