LAist: Why the Guy Should Make the First Move

April Smear

Mon, 08 Oct 2007 13:38:23 -0800

Grab her hair while making out. If she likes it, then she's down for hair pulling during boneage.

sofubi

Mon, 08 Oct 2007 11:38:16 -0800

"If a guy can’t get the balls to kiss me now, then he definitely won’t be able to pull my hair during sex..." Should hair pulling be discussed in advance, or is it cool just to go for it, like making the first move. Any guidance would be appreciated.

guest

Sun, 07 Oct 2007 17:31:07 -0800

No need to continue enforcing stereotypes, there should never be any "rules" to dating and relationships. Baaaaaa!

April Smear

Sun, 07 Oct 2007 16:40:36 -0800

My point exactly!

guest

Sun, 07 Oct 2007 14:23:30 -0800

Brava! It's time someone reminded guys to sack up, quit whining and get back to being creepy (ie making the 1st move). Please tell my boyfriend I was kidding about being creepy, because seriously, if guys don't make the first move, I assume it's because they don't want me.

guest

Sun, 07 Oct 2007 12:13:06 -0800

"During my time of leisure, if I get the pleasure of being a cute man’s company, then I’d prefer if he’d take the slack off me so that I don’t have to make the first physical gesture." Uh, guys have the slack to make the first move EVERY TIME, so maybe you should think of it that way. If you want to kiss somebody, just do it.

guest

Sun, 07 Oct 2007 08:04:25 -0800

Not to be angry, but it seems women want the power to turn their heads, play Lucy with the football.

Bob LLama

Sat, 06 Oct 2007 18:11:56 -0800

Guys no longer make the first move because it's been beaten into our heads over and over again that if we make an unwelcome advance, we are basically rapists.