LAist: Be Careful What You Wish For

guest

Mon, 06 Aug 2007 09:21:52 -0800

It happen to me in the past, there's some exercise you can do. You can ask your doctor or go to a library. It will help you for the size and also you can have more control during the intercourse. Even if you have no problem, you should try.

guest

Tue, 24 Jul 2007 03:08:07 -0800

My sympathies, that's the same reason why all my past relationships didn't work out. The exes would beg to differ, but what do they know. Indian Stallion http://indianstallion.blogspot.com

guest

Mon, 23 Jul 2007 13:37:36 -0800

not to be the parade rainer - but just to share my story: i had the exact same problem. found a great guy, we were super attracted to each other but he was HUGE. not oh-my-god-the-sex-is-going-to-be-awesome huge but oh-my-god-how-in-the-hell-is-that-going-to-fit-in-me huge. (and just to debunk that common myth: he had pretty small hands). we tried everything but it just hurt. it got to the point where i had constant UTI's and would be sore for at least a day any time we would do it. yadda yadda yadda... we broke up. he's married now so he clearly found someone who could handle it -- but i'd love to know how.

guest

Sun, 22 Jul 2007 04:42:17 -0800

It may not be romantic, but get tested for STDs -both of you. The chafing and stretching can cause tiny tears in your mucuose membranes which are invitations to infection. Also, the condom can tear. In time you will adapt. But until you adapt back if you break up, other guys will be boring.

guest

Sat, 21 Jul 2007 16:30:20 -0800

I don't think more lube is the answer - if you're using water based gel (which you should, because those are the best ones to go with condoms without the risk of breaking them), when the lube starts to run dry, spray some water. If you add more lube, the second coat will get to the same sticky state, as you might have already figured. But yea, I know it can be a problem... :( Also, would you be ok to ask him how he's addressed the issue in the past?

guest

Sat, 21 Jul 2007 09:30:53 -0800

i recently started a relationship with a nice girl i met. i warned her about the same issue. fast forward to 3 months, she says it still hurts but its more pleasurable than in the begining stages. she also claims that her uterus moved.

guest

Sat, 21 Jul 2007 02:58:29 -0800

As a Jewish male hoping to keeps things alive within my Jewish brotherhood - being in the dating world, I wonder - will you ever return to liking a smaller homeboy? say, like a 6 incher? OR is what your saying that men with a small snausage just has the ability to rise more spontaneously (my specialty) to the occasion? Either way, my Jewish penis' power feels raped.

guest

Sat, 21 Jul 2007 01:24:12 -0800

I support you!

Bradywestwater

Sat, 21 Jul 2007 00:40:40 -0800

There is a procedure - or procedures. Many years ago a buddy of mine had to fly back east with his wife to be to show her ob-gyn the extent of the problem. But even after she had the procedure, it still required some chemical help on his part to finally comfortably close the deal.

Sloane Berrent

Fri, 20 Jul 2007 19:59:47 -0800

L really love you. That's it. That's all I got right now.

guest

Fri, 20 Jul 2007 19:24:13 -0800

oh, for your problems, single jew girl! you're sure you aren't, um, tense, at entry? i mean knowing it's so big? i tend to think this is a relaxation thing. can we get some raw numbers here on sports guy's, ah, specs? don't give up hope on spontaneity. and lube comes in handy purse-sizes, too, you know. good luck! p.s. -- you may wanna refer this post of yours to your fellow laist sexpert, jen sincero. she'll know what to do!

guest

Fri, 20 Jul 2007 19:15:31 -0800

Oy, indeed. Ask your ob-gyn about this. I think there's a medical procedure that can be done to make it a little less, uhm, uncomfortable. That is, of course, if you think Sports Guy is worth it.