LAist: Living In Sin: I'm In Love, Kill Me Now

guest

Wed, 22 Aug 2007 12:14:05 -0800

HONESTLY, YOU MAY NOT WANT TO HEAR THIS, BUT LIFE HURTS SOMETIMES....SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO MAKE OURSELVES VULNERABLE, EXPRESS HOW WE REALLY FEEL NO MATTER WHAT THE OTHER PERSON MAY BE THINKING. WE HAVE TO FOLLOW OUR HEARTS. LOVE IS ACCEPTING SOMEONE FOR WHO THEY ARE AND YOU CAN'T BE AFRAID OF BEING HURT...DON'T BE EMBARRASSED BECAUSE YOU TOLD A GUY HOW YOU FELT...IT'S OKAY..IT'S LIFE. NOT EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE PERFECT...BUT AS LONG AS YOU KNOW YOU DID RIGHT BY YOUR OWN HEART THEN WHAT HAVE YOU GOT TO LOSE. AND IF YOU DO GET HURT..AS I SAID YOU WILL, THAT'S LIFE, CHOOSE TO LIVE IT!! DON'T HOLD BACK, DON'T TRY TO PLEASE PEOPLE, AND DON'T BE SO GURADED THAT YOU CAN'T EXPERIENCE ALL THAT LIFE HAS TO OFFER!

guest

Thu, 19 Jul 2007 17:18:36 -0800

As a girl who's been in that exact same situation I can only tell you to RUN! Run as fast as you can and don't look back. I call bullshit on him. If you fell for him in five months then he certainly knows you well enough to know if he wants to pursue something more with you. As long as he's occupying this part of your heart you won't be able to make room for a guy who wants you in EXACTLY the same way you want him. It's going to hurt like hell but it's time to move on.

timmay

Thu, 19 Jul 2007 11:53:01 -0800

dump his ass ... call his bluff ... the worst thing that happens is that he learns that his feelings were deeper than he thought ... and he tells you. until then, he's merely being selfish ... and you're letting him get away with it.