LAist Interview: In Sickness and In Health Director Pilar Prassas

Two years into shooting - Marilyn was diagnosed with Lou Gehrig's Disease (ALS) and I knew this was my story. But, knowing and loving Marilyn and her family - it was a difficult thing to address. I sat down with Marilyn and she told me to "keep shooting." So that is exactly what I did.

Were there any stipulations on what could be filmed and what couldn't?

I made the decisions on what to film and what not to film. There were some moments that I shot that I just didn't think people needed to see, so I didn't end up using them. I would ask myself - is this a moment that I would want filmed if I were Marilyn? If the answer was no, I would put the camera down. I had to go on my gut with this one.

This must have been very difficult for you since you had such a close relationship with Marilyn, yet you were documenting her struggle with a disease. How did you deal with that?

I had to hide behind the camera and pretend that this wasn't really happening to me. I had to stay numb in order to make the film. I tried not to let my feelings get in the way. But now, watching the film, especially surrounded by the emotions of an audience - I let myself cry and miss her. I am just glad that my sadness never got in the way of creating the best film I could make in memory of Marilyn.

How was working with Peter Heacock, your co-cinematographer and editor?

I filmed the majority of everything during the first three years, but Peter stepped in and filmed things after Marilyn passed away. His footage comes toward the end of the film. I hired him to edit the film after Marilyn died and then we created such a great working duo. He got on board to help me finish the film. He is now my co-producer of the film.

You've had a few screenings so far, like at the Philadelphia International Gay and Lesbian Film Festival. How has the reception been?

The first screening had 800 people. That took place in Marilyn's home town, Haddonfield, NJ. The festival world premiere in Philadelphia was a sold-out crowd. I have received many e-mails and letters praising the film. It has been incredible. The media has also shown lots of interest. I am just so glad that Marilyn can live on from this documentary.

What is your advice for young filmmakers out there?

When a story finds you - just pick up your camera and shoot. You never know where it will take you.

In Sickness and In Health
6:30pm
Friday, July 20
Directors Guild of America Theater #2
7920 Sunset Boulevard
Los Angeles, CA 90046

2:30pm
Sunday, July 22
Barnsdall Theatre
4804 Hollywood Blvd
Los Angeles, CA 90027

Images courtesy of Pilar Prassas